Help:Does dildo size and shape matter to women
The size and shape of the silicone dildos is not significant. Most women in studies admit they do not get orgasms with penetrative sex. Only about 29% admit it happened even once during penetrative sex. Most had achieved it either alone or with a partner of either sex stimulating their clitoris. Penetrative sex, especially with a dildo just doesn't do that. Rear entry penetrative sex is even worse.
The knowledgeable man will scintillate his woman in a playful romantic way until she cums form various forms of clitoral stimulation. Mouth, wet fingers, even small vibrating “toys” that send her to heaven on a fast track. This is the real secret to success with a woman. Your attention is what she craves. Attention to her clitoris is much better than any other single potential you have in your bag of tricks.
If she cums first, you will have essentially free reign with her, and she will almost enjoy anything you need for you to cum next. Women enjoy pleasing their man, especially if she is pleasured first. Delaying your orgasm has its benefits too. Usually it becomes much more intense with that intensional delay. It is certainly worth waiting for, think about it. Sex is a mutual activity. If you know the little secrets it can become just that. The porn scene we see so often with its “”hop and pop” sort of experience is great for viewing and mind games by men, but in reality it is a relationship (even a one night stand) where both players expect satisfaction. If you are committed to one player it is even more important for you to know the drill so to speak.
Your orgasm is brief in any setting, getting there is more than half the game. Getting yours to quickly happens in about 30% of the time in most cases. Learn to prolong the experience with sessions of deeply enhanced foreplay. Toys are good, even dildos, but don't forget her “”penis” is her clitoris. Where would you be if she was unable to stimulate your penis, even in penetrative sex? Get knowledgeable about “your” woman. Ask her, and open up her secret “”box.” Find out what makes her the most excited female during sex. The term “sexual intercourse” means sexual communication.
Talk to her! Ask her! Fantasy plays a very important role in human female sexual response. Some women have demonstrated sexual orgasm using only their fantasies to trigger this whole mental potential we call orgasm. Most of these women are spinal cord injuries with no hope of even clitoral stimulation. So it is real, and in a few cases it was done in an fMRI machine that verified it was a genuine orgasm. No male has done that yet.
You have a ticking time bomb in her. The trigger is the gentle stimulation of her clitoris. It doesn't happen often in penetrative sex, but it can happen much more often in romantic sexual fore play, done with patience and gentle consideration. Give her fantasies time to be used, and become functional. After that it is your turn, and she should be much more compliant, and cooperative, even submissive and “”useable” in dominant versus submissive terms. Just a reasonable, simple, secret about sexual behavior.
